'I asked my boyfriend why he wants sex so much more than me. His answer was surprising.'

Understanding Sex Drive

A common stereotype suggests that men have higher sex drives than women. However, experts say that true sex addiction is rare and it's not just about frequency, but about compulsion.

Wanting sex often isn't an addiction. It only becomes one when it's used to numb or escape emotion, rather than to connect.

According to psychologist and sexologist Laura Lee, the issue is more complex than just a difference in libido. Men often use the excuse of a low libido partner to stray outside the relationship without consent.

Author's summary: Exploring the myth of men's higher sex drives.

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Mamamia Mamamia — 2025-10-18

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